There are times in one’s life when certain events do not
make sense. Our actions can be questionable especially to those around us. Beth
had one of those events when someone backed into the passenger side of her two
door car. How did it happen, you ask? She was driving through a fast food
restaurant’s parking lot. Without looking in his rear-view mirror or behind him,
a man backs into her car. It was a split second realization. She tried to speed
up to avoid the impact. Beth tried to honk. Well, he stopped after hitting her
car. Both of them got out of their cars to assess the damages. His car did not
have a scratch, of course. Beth’s? Her car had a very noticeable wound. When
the man saw her car’s damage, he panicked and tried to blame her for driving
too fast. He would not be accountable
for his actions. He appeared to be a gangster with the getup, hair cut,
tattoos, and facial expressions. His passenger was a pregnant woman. Both were
very young. Beth confirmed that her passenger door was operable. She told him,
“Do not worry about it,” while extending her hand for a handshake. She shook
his hand, got into her car, and drove off. The expression on his face was
priceless. In fact, everyone who hears of the story usually wore a priceless
facial expression. Her family members never understood and made fun at her
expense. One day at her brother’s family get together, his in laws asked Beth
why she did this. She recounted, “While looking at the man who caused my car’s
damage and noticing he was frightened, all I can hear is ‘I desire mercy, not
sacrifice.’1 I tried to ignore this still voice. It said again, ‘I
desire mercy, not sacrifice.’ The still small voice prompted me to shake his
hand and leave. And I did.” Let’s just say they all wore priceless facial expressions
and no one dared to tease Beth about this particular event again.
Has anyone ever done that to you? Show you undeserved mercy?
Someone has for me. His name is Jesus Christ. He died so I wouldn’t have to. He
rose to give me life. All He asks is that I maintain a relationship with Him.
It is a relationship of faith, hope, and love. Once He is the VIP or Very
Important Person in my life, then I can learn to love myself as He loves me.
The next step is to love others as I love myself. It is great to consistently
attend church, serve others, read the Bible, pray, and all that good stuff. But
if the motivation is not love, I am only being a stumbling block to those
around me. Which route would you choose?
Foot note:
1)
“I desire
mercy, not sacrifice” is found in the Bible in Hosea 6:6; Matthew 9:13; Matthew
12:7; and explained beautifully in Mark 12:33. Sacrifice is the law and mercy
is shown by grace through the sacrifice of Jesus Christ. Romans 13:10 states:
Love does no harm to its neighbor. Therefore, love is the fulfillment of the
law.
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